At this stage of life, you’d think that getting dressed would be easier. After all, you’re older, wiser and more comfortable in your own skin.
But when it comes to clothes, many men find themselves feeling the opposite.

Your waistline may have expanded, the shops seem full of clothes designed for men 20 years younger, trends are coming and going, but you don’t have the energy to chase them.

At some point in midlife, many men realise they’ve stopped paying attention to how they dress — not out of laziness, but because other things took priority. When your life has been focussed on building a career, raising a family, you simply feel ready to take stock. Not to chase trends, but to reconnect with who you are now.

Ever stood in front of a closet bursting at the seams and thought, “I have nothing to wear”?

You’re not alone. In a world of fast fashion and constant trend cycles, it’s easy to feel the pressure to buy in to the latest ‘must-have’ of the season. Also, not feeling confident in your style or navigating a change in lifestyle can make it difficult to let go of things that you feel you might need at some point. The result is that the more you accumulate, the more overwhelmed you feel.

But what if less really is more? What if a smaller wardrobe could actually make you happier?

Style is never just about what you wear, it’s about how you ‘are seen’. For many professionals, particularly those in leadership roles, personal style becomes an extension of identity and reflects values, presence, and intention before a single word is spoken. It’s about showing up in a way that feels true to who you are.

One way to bring more clarity and confidence to your personal style is by looking at it through the lens of the leadership archetypes. These archetypes aren’t about job titles or personality tests; they’re about the kind of energy you naturally lead with.